happy new year
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on the occasion of new year i would like to wish all of u a very happy new year 2012 may this new year brings a lots of happiness in your life and family,,,,
My definition of selfishness
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It is said that to think about own self is selfishness. But I do not agree with definition of selfishness, how can a person define a word in such way which is exactly neither practical nor meaningful. To think about own self is human nature it’s a fact that every one think about own self. Why should one think about others rather than thinking about own life, future and career or own profit. Is there anyone who do not think about own self? Or do anyone exist in this world who thinks about others rather than thinking about own self? Several questions arise on the basis of the definition of selfishness which have been defined and described by the society, such as is everyone of the world is selfish ? Because it’s not only difficult but also impossible to find even a single person who do not think about own self and only think about others. According to the definition a person who wants own profit is selfish, and again I want to ask that who is related to business then its the nature or its like a rule of business to think and want the profit if there is no profit then do you think there will be anyone who will be involved in business ? So are all the persons related to business is selfish? I am not only dissatisfied but totally disagreed with the definition of the selfishness defined by the society. Some educated persons cleverly defined some words to prove that they are great which I think was done just for fame and popularity. Undoubtedly that all the humans of the world do not contain humanity some have no moral character i.e. there are thousands of persons with no humanity and no morality .After all to think about own self is human nature, how can it be selfishness ? Everyone have their own way and logic to define something; similarly, I also do have my own way to define the words as well as the way of living life. I am neither philosopher nor writer but as everyone have the right to follow the way and to give his own logic similarly I also have my own definition of selfishness and several such words but here I would like to define the word “selfishness” on my own way. To use, deceive or mislead someone for own profit is called selfishness. Knowledge is power and experience is the best teacher of life. On the basis of my knowledge, I gained from the atmosphere and the experience I got from my life, I defined the meaning and definition of the word. I follow my own way and I am not going to compromise with anything which is not suitable, convincing or satisfactory for me. I will define each word and I will follow my own way on my own ability, which is not comfortable or meaningless for me。 If its proudness then I am proud. I would like to be called proud rather than following and choosing the uncomfortable words and way. I am neither inventing anything nor creating but I have the confidence on my knowledge and experience, that’s why I just follow my own way to treat people or spend the life. You people have the right to decide which way you want to follow there is no any compulsion and neither any force. If you like my way then you are welcome if you do not like my way or just like and follow the way of the society then its up to you. I have nothing to say. I just want to assure you that neither I have any selfishness nor I want any fame, as a human I just share my way in a hope that there might be several people who do not agree with several ways and definitions given by the society. I just shared my way so that whoever is crippled on the thinking by such a way can have some relief by my way. Simply, not to follow any religion do not mean religiophobia or Theophobia. Similarly, not to follow the way of society does not mean anti-social. So decide your own way of living and enjoy the life according to your desire in your own situation.
Why happiness of past is always painful??
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happiness of past is always painful….but why its painful…i thought so many times, practically i wanted to know about it in deep may be because i am a practicle person or may be its my nature to know something in detail and deep..i have heard that a little knowledge is dangerious and i do not want to keep any dangerious thing in my life…….have u ever thought that why the happiness of past is always painful ?…….everyone have their own thought and logics….similarly i also have my own thoughts and logics for different topics …..there are some reasons for that but as the reaosn is not itself described but its discribable……..enjoyable moments, the time when we laugh, the moment without sadness, the moment of success and the time when we are together with someone whom we love and from whom we get the love or ample of such moments can be called happy moment or happiness…where we call happiness is without sadness….but the question is why happiness of past is painful its not only painful but sometimes its hurtful and sometimes it hurts so badly that could ruin one’s life and sometimes it could be the main cause of depression which is mental disorder?………the very basic thing is Oppurtinuty rarely knocks twice…so whenever we get some moment to enjoy we want to spend our all the efforts,emotions, concentration that we do not even try to control our exictment,,,,we want to be happy as more as we can by enjoying the moment in our own way like we want to finish all the ocean by drinking in a single gulp ,,,,,as we use our all the efforts and excitment to enjoy and to get the happiness similarly the shadow of the moment occupies in our heart, mind as well as life…that we always want to remember and we want to enjoy that moment by memorizing that…..its possible to forget whatever we read….. its hard to to forget whatever we see….. but its just impossible to forget whatever we feel and face…….any moment of life can not be forgotten whichever happened to us or even related to us no matter wheather that is sad or happy…….personally I think there is nothing good or bad and nothing happy or sad its just a thinking happiness or sadness and good orbad it all depends on our thinking how we are taking that,,,usually which moment gives some plasure without any difficulties is happiness and whichever moment makes us uncomfortable is called sadness…..we all know that change is very basic rule of nature but we do not accept this fact in practicle life thats why we recall the memories in naive way we always try and want to search some rays of happiness and we want to enjoy from those moments which have been passed where we all know that past only indicates only about the passed time……we just want to find some rays of happiness in those moments and we just go on sinking through that past memories and when we found that now its not possible to get the same moments then we feel sadand get hurt…..we have to accept that the situation is always not the same,,,,everything have the right time for shine,,,,,nothing can be so brightful that can give the brightness all the time…..even the sad moment can also not be forgotten but we do not want to recall those moments we just try to find the happiness but do not think that past can never give the happiness…..past is only for getting some lessions by memorizing….spending the tears by recalling the sadness or in current situation if its sad is more times better than getting hurt by remembering the past of happiness in search of happiness…. when we remember the sadness its true that it affects directly and we might have some tears on our eyes, tearing gives freshness and we feel light after tearing,,,its just a short time sadness but from the past of happiness we get indirectly effect which would be a very big cause of trouble…..sometimes person looses their mental balance due to lots of stress in hope of happiness from the past,,,,we should avoid all the expectation from such memories,,,,no any memories can give us any types of happiness…..even its unforgottable, we should not pass through such moments in any hope,,,,the only way to be free from such moments is do not even loose the excitement and emotion in any situation..no matter whats the matter is and how it sounds or looks,,,being practicle and accepting the truth and basic facts are the only key point,,,,,,whatever comes just accept and take that in normal way it will never give u any direct or indirect effect,,,,,make all the situation effectless for future,,,,then everything will be easier….it seems difficult…but its very useful for life…an anonymous person said that where there is way where is will…,,and if there is way for will then whats the difficulties is ? Another anonymous person have said that there is nothing impossible in this world,,,,even it does not suit in all the situation but in many cases its suitable and here I would like to say “ where is way there is nothing impossible”.To get success in anything we just need two things the first thing is courage and another is interest,,if u have the interest then automatically u will get the courage,,,,it can be compared as interest is will and courage is way….Don’t ever try to find any happiness in past moment because the past memories even can not give the single rays of happiness,,,we should be more couragious and should creat our way rather than crippled on trying to find anything from the past,,,
NO thanks and no sorry in friendship
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I think thanks and sorry are just formal words and friendship is not a formal relationship so those words are not suitable for this relationship. So it would be more relationship friendly if we are able to leap far high above these formal words. And, I am here with an intention to establish a more friendly relation that crosses ever walls and borders of formalities. I often regard these words as an absolute reflection of some resects which one is forced to give although the heart particularly does not long. If you tend to be more formal to anybody then by sure you need to contribute, or, more presisely speaking, you need to sacrifice some of your freedom that particulary harm your friendship.I belive friendship stands on a outstanding ground of love, affection, dedication, thoughtfullness and more exactly attitudes. So it is my apeal to all those friendship lovers to jump above all the obstacles of relationship, which is no other than formality. It’s not a compulsion, or don’t take it that you have been trying to be ladden with my principle. It’s the flow of 21st century where all the human beings are free to stand on their own thoughts,nerms and values. So dear friends, come on, let’s join this wonderful era of globlization with a pure vision of friendship which always remain as an everlasting relationship, if that is true.
धन्यबाद झा जि
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मधेशिहरु को सम्पर्क भाशा को रुप म स्थपित भैसकेको हिन्दि भाशा लाइ अझ पनि नेपाल मा मन्यता दिइदैन भने यस्ता जवब हरु दिनु पर्छ यि पहाडिया हरु लाइ । तिमि मधेश को गर्व हौ कतै पनि न डगमगाउ आफ्ना कदम हरु सबै मधेशि हरु तिम्र साथ छन् । या त पहाडिया हरु ले मधेश सङ सम्बन्धित सबै कुरा को आदर गर्नु पर्छ या त मधेश लाइ स्वतन्त्र गर्नु पर्छ ।
मधेशि का वस्तविकता हरु
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इतिहास् का पान्ना हरु लै पल्टाउने हो भने कतै पनि मधेशि लाइ नेपालि मनिएको वा नेपालि सरह को दर्जा दिइयेको पाइदैन।– मधेशि भन्ने बितिकै इनडियन भनेरे हेप्ने अनि दुर्-ब्यव्हर् गर्ने । धोति, भेले, मर्शिया अनि त्यस्ता नाना थरि का उपनाम बाट सम्बोधन गर्ने नेपाल मा पहाडिया हरु को सन्स्कार नै भै सके को छ । पन्चायत ब्यबस्था मा राजा को बिरोध त क्षितिज पारि को कुरा थियो त्यति खेर राजा लाइ तपाइ भनु पनि अपराध थियो त्यस्तो बेला मा पनि रुद्र नारायण झा जो भर्खर् बिबाह बन्धन मा बाधिएको १ साता पनि न बित्दै राजा महेन्द्र को गाडि मा बम हान्ने साहसि मधेसि पुत्र को नाम आज कतै पनि सम्मानित पाइदैन बरु शेर बहादुर देउबा जो राजपरिवार कै नाता मा पर्ने आरजु राणा सङ बिबाह गरे का छन लाइ प्रजातान्तृक भनिन्छ । नेपाल मा गणतन्त्र सब्द सिकाउने रामराजा प्रसाद सिङ जस्ता बिद्वान र साहशि जन्माउने मधेशि पुत्र लाइ बिभिन्न थरि को रजाबादि को लन्छना लगाउने पहाडिया हरु ले मधेशि लाइ कायर भनेर नेपालि सेना मा भर्ति लिदैन थे । मधेश मा मैथलि , भोजपुरि, अबधि, मगहि, बजिका, थारु, कछडिया , जस्ता बिभिन्न थरि का भासा हरु छन् सबै लाइ सबै भसा को ग्यान हुदैन त्यो अबस्था मा सम्पर्क को लागि औटा साझा भासा को मदत लिइन्छ त्यस्तै हिन्दि भासा मधेश मा बोलिने सबै भासा को साझा भासा को रुप मा स्थापित गरियेको यथार्त सबै मा सर्बबिदितै छ । तर पहाडिया हरु लाइ हिन्दि भासा सङ पनि आपति छ इन्डिआ को दार्जीलिङ को प्रशान्त तामाङ लाइ चन्दा उठाएर इनडिअन इडल मा जिताउन को लागि पछि नपर्ने पहाडिय हरु ले दार्जीलिङ को डेनि लाइ नेपालि भनि गर्व गर्छन इन्डिया को तेन्जिङ नोर्गे शेर्पा लाइ सम्मान गरि नेपालि भनेर चिनाउन पछि पर्दैनन । मनिशा कोइराला लाइ गोर्खा दक्षिण बाहु को लागि सिफरिस गरिन्छ तर उदित नारायण झा लाइ सधै आरोप र प्रत्यारोप कै खाडल मै राखिन्छन कारण केबल एउटै कि उदित नारायण झा एउटा मधेशि हुन । राजनिति कै कुरा गर्ने हो भने । माधव कुमार नेपाल कै कुरा गरौ न उनका खान्दान बेतिया बाट आएर त्यहि मधेश कै रौतहट मा बसोबास गर्दा उनि नेपालि हुन्छन तर उक्त पार्टि कै डा बनसिधर मिश्र जस्को पुर्खा अनादि काल बाट त्यहि मधेश मै छन जस ले रौतहट मा कम्युनिस्ट भन्दा सबै भाग्थे त्यति खेर पार्टि मा लागेर आफ्नो सर्वस्य सुम्पिदा पनि आज सम्म उन लाइ पार्टि को केन्द्र्यि सदस्यता पनि दिइदिन अनि अशोक राइ जस लाइ स्वास्थ सम्बन्धि पकै पनि डाक्टर भन्दा कम ग्यान छ लाइ फुल क्याबिनेट मन्त्र्यी बनाइन्छ तर डाक्टर बन्शिधर मिश्र लाइ स्वस्थ्य रज्य मन्तरि बनाइन्छ कारण फेरि त्यहि र कारक पनि त्यहि मधेशिपन् । त्यस्तै उप-सभामुख चित्र लेखा यादव जस ले सभामुख को अनुपस्थिति मा जनन्दूलन् म पनि उप-सभामुख थियिन उन लाइ सभामुख न दियेर सुबास नेम्वाङ लाइ बनाइन्छ कारण फेरि त्यहि अनि नेपलि काङ्रेस मा महेन्द्र नारायण निधि सङ गरियेको ब्यबहार अनि पहाडिया ले गजेन्द्र नारायण सिङ्ह् सङ गरियेको ब्यबाहर यस्ता अनगिन्ति उदाहरण हरु छन जस को करक केबल् मधेशिपन् नै हो । यस्तो ब्यबहार बाट को क्रोधित हुदैन? अनि कसले आफ्नो अधिकार को माग राख्दैन? कोहि सङ मधेसि को माग मा आपति छ भने म लै औत मात्र पनि कारण छ भने म लाइ देखाउ । के मधेशि को मेधेस् छुट्ट्याउ भने माग नाजायज छ र? हाम्रो पुर्खा ले हामि लाइ अन्तिम समय सम्म आफ्नो धैर्य न गुमाउनु भनेर सिकाएका छन यस्को मतलब मधेशि कायर होइनन् । राम राजा प्रसाद का जनबादि पार्टि ले पन्चायत काल मा काठ्मान्डु मा बम ब्लास्ट गरि अनि नव युवा हरु ले नै सिधै काठ्मान्डु मा अनेकौ पटक प्रहार गरि दि सकेका छन ति सबै केबल मधेशि कायर होइन भनेर देखाये को मात्र हो प्रार्थना गरौ मधेशि ले आफ्नो वास्तविक साहस देखाउनु न परोस् । अन्यथा माओबादि को जन्युध भन्दा पनि कठोर र निर्मम हुन्छ त्यस कारण हे नेपालि हरु अब पनि जाग एउटै जननि ले जनमाएको सन्तन मा भेद भाव न गर । हाम्रो अस्तित्व को सम्मन गर अन्यथा तिम्रो अस्तित्व नै मिटाउन पनि हामि पछाडि हट्दैनौ । ९०% हिन्दु भए को देश् लाइ बिना जन्मत सङ्रह् नै धर्म निर्पेक्ष अनि बिना जनमत सङ्रह् कै गण्तन्त्र घोशणा गर्ने सोच मा मात्र सिमित न भै जनता को सबै पक्ष हरु लाइ पनि सोच् अब अन्यथा ढिलो होला जय देश जय मधेश
Welcome to all
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I have started this blog to write to share my feelings through this site specially the political situations and my own analysis of the politecal leaders of nepal will be published here,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,all the readers are requested to comment only the facts please do not write anything which have not been proven yet………everyone can write their feelings here if you people do not like or if you are not agree with my any article or analysis then please let me know i will try my best to describe all of you,,,,,,,,,,this blog is started to acknoledge all the people who are out of our country and interested in knowing the reality of current situations of nepal and the reality of nepali political leaders………………………नेपाल को रजनैतिक अबस्था बाट कोहि अनभिग्य छैन तर के वास्तव मा नेपालि नेता हरु का कदम हरु सहि छन त? त्यसैतै कुरा हरु अनि तिनि हरु क केहि वस्तविक्ता हरु लाइ सबै को समक्ष ल्याउने प्रयास हो यो । सब् भन्दा पहिला ने क पा माओबदि क अध्यक्ष प्रचन्ड को desh ra janta प्रति को सोच र राजनिति का अधार । kantipur tv le sarbjanik gareko विडियो हेरे पछि तपाइ लाइ के लाग्छ नेपालि जनता हरु को उज्वल भविस्य को लागि नै त्यो जनयुध थियो त?
